long distance relationship.

Once, I came across over a discussion  on the radio while on my way back.The topic of the day was LDR.which stands for long distance relationship.
Its seems from what i heard was LDR.I was curious about it,

A couple who managed to survive it  They were from an era. An era where there is no things called as internet! No email! No Webcam! No skype!it seems that they managed to survive through the old-fashion way-writing letters to each other.It seems that they will write to each other every month.And try to guess how long that they wrote to each other  ?  3 months ? 9 months ? Tsk tsk no no no... 10 years.10 years of communicating thru letters.Honestly i found the story amusing.Cuz from the stories I heard before this was about how the people that called to the radio station, tell their stories on how most of them try to LDR and couldnt survive the hardship that came out which consist of some cheated on their partners, lost interest, lost trust n etc.


What was more amazing was that that woman that called in said that they are currently happily married for 10 years with 4 kids.and there I was thinking ''woah , aunty how old are u now lar?'' So basically they  know each other for 20 years + if I'm not mistaken .=S
Seriously it's really amazing to hear these true stories.Actually it did kinda clear my doubt slight bit about LDR.


Honestly all this while I was thinking how most high school sweethearts will survive college life.Will they enroll into the same college or try out Long distance relationship if one of them goes outstation? Even so, can LDR last ?and how ?




Another one that I heard was from my friend who try LDR from this guy who's from Singapore.She managed to last with this guy about 1 years  but unfortunately they couldn't managed to survive thru.They did meet during the holidays and they seems to communicate thru web cam , msn and skype.Once again, Is it that hard to last ?




For those who  used to be close get separated in LDR.It will be hard at first.
At first the distance would be uncomfortable for the couples.One might fear for the other of one's honesty and trust.Doubt is of course there.It would be hard and it takes alot of effort.One may not get used to the sudden change of  relationship.Besides that one would fear of the other's condition.Basically like parents keep asking about them haha.
Okay let me give an example,
If a banana person(a person who doesnt know mandarin) goes to a college which is far away and full of chinese people.The other partner might be worry all the time on how that banana person gonna survive?
Its like you're in a place with  everyone who speaks alien language.How could the partner not worry ?
The partner might be thinking

'' Can the dude order food?''

'' Crap, does he know how to ask the lecturer's permission to the toilet ?''and etc etc.

The dude might count his partner as bothering and get fed-up of her.


The other scenario is one's feel insecure of oneself and not confident enough to try LDR.One might think low of him/herself.Thinking that their partner might find better than them and dump them .Thinking that they might not be good enough for them.In simple words, thinking too much!


Honestly, I'm actually a person who can't stand LDR.The idea of being far away from the person you love is hard.When you're in depression state, who do you find ? Times like this is kinda hard , to find your closest friend and that someone special of yours; you will kinda have a second thought whether to seek comfort and advice.When you're in a LDR, the other partner will have a life there.Far away from you where you can't constantly know what they are doing.They might be busy with their college life or having a great time with their friends there. Come on la, who are we to interrupt them them while they are in a good mood? hahaha
Basically its like  someone's big fat arse blocking your view when you are watching your favourite  tv show! Annoying ? It might.


Well to me thats how its seems.Its Hard at first.Will it be easy after this ? I hope.I guess communication is the one of the most crucial thing to have a last and long relationship not only in LDR.

Trust compassion

Remember: Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.

The irony of life

Its when something is made for a purpose or something should have go a way but the outcome is the total opposite of it. Its like when we plan every single details and prepare ourselves for it and expect the best possible outcome of it but it didn’t turns out the way it suppose to be and it turns out the total opposite of it.


Example like the stories we read in the newspaper everyday ,under those newspaper title lies a story left untold. Like the increase price of the petrol which kept increasing over the years.As it may seem like a small and common stuff that happen over the years,but have you ever thought that it might be some conspiracy that the government is planning to make us more poor and keeping the money to themselves? Haha call me hypocrite or anything, it might be true and you will never know.or its just me thinking too much =X


Anyway well we shall just skip that, lets include something which everyone goes through which is… wait for it EXAM! Even hearing the word makes my head dizzy.I’m sure all of you guys been through this during exam, you study like hell, burn the midnight oil, revise till your pupils turns white (okay, this is just exaggerating)  but in simple words, you study hard and what you get for your results? Arrghh a B? I was suppose to get an A.This is just random. My main point is that your result wasn’t really what you wanted and was far from your real aim.But think back what u were doing while you were ‘studying hard’; did you study last minute? Did you text someone while studying?Did you concentrate on your book instead of dozing off in your dreamland? Were you trying to figure out your personal problems? Or you were killing 2 birds with 1 stone or 3 birds in this case as you were chatting online , playing facebook and studying at the same time ?  Haha think about it ;D


Another aspects of irony of life is relationships.Everything works out well , in a relationship, you thought the guy you love have shown that he truly love you after he says the three words ( Attention, most girls, wait cross that every girls couldn’t resist the three words).As time goes by , you gave your heart and make him your everything ;you guys will spend the rest of your life together and you guys have plan your future and stuff.Awh… so sweet and you guys live happily ever after.Too bad, there’s no such thing as happily ever after and it only exist in fairytale.They should ban fairytales as it teaches children such this dillusion that happily ever after even exist.Rawr!


As my story revolves the irony of life.Life doesn’t turns out the way you wanted. Anything could happen in any moment.One moment its still here and the next thing you know it, its gone.Just like that.As you are I love, you are blinded by what you think is true and what they want you think its true.At this age , most of these young adolescent aren’t sincere in love and at this phase of life, they tend to enjoy their youth and make the best of it.So don’t take your relationship and love life seriously.It will help you in a long term and as for those who got heart broken, don’t give up on love as there are better out there.Try to forget the jerk that broke your heart.It might be hard but once you get over it, you will feel a sense of ease,clarity and freedom.You will find a better one out there.Like most people tell me, when one door closes, the other opens. Things, circumstances, and people come and go, and the only thing that remains constant is YOU, witnessing it all from the present moment.


I might not be very experience in this stuff but you can say I have seen and been through this phase.Believe me at some point of your life you will go through this phase of irony.So enjoy your life, live your life to the max.Make every mistake you make, your last mistake and first  valueable lessons. Try to see every bad things that happen in your life a good thing as these horrible things that happen teaches us and show us the value of life.Be positive because everything will be fine and works out in the end.Take my word, it will work out , you just gotta be strong to make through life.

La vie est formidable!life's great!

animal rights II

Fight for animal rights are one of part and parcel what we should do to defend and care for all the animals. How about the society helps out to build shelter to stray animals? Isn’t that a very good idea to help up the homeless animals?  Definitely yes!!!

One association that help animals and defend their rights. Association like Animal Welfare Society Malaysia (PAWS). That association actually helps up animal that needs shelter and caring house to live in. Animals actually are the same as human. They need family to live with and caring person to take care of them. Food, drink and medication are provided in the home of PAWS.

On Wednesday, I saw a puppy at the road side. As I was eating nearby there, the puppy came near me. I assume the puppy ask for some food. I gave him some as well as some water. After finish my food, the puppy followed me wherever I go. I feel pity for the puppy; in fact I wanted to bring the puppy along with me. But I know that I don’t have time for the puppy.

In short, I have college life to handle and training to go to everyday until late at night. I know if I have a puppy, I need to bear the responsibility of a parent to the puppy. As much as I loved to, but I definitely can’t have one.

Therefore, I brought him to the veterinarian to check his health condition. Waited for few hours there. The puppy is in good condition.

Now the question is:
where to place the him?  Who’s going to become his owner?  Will the owner treat him well? What I should do??

I seek advice from my parents, they say send him to our house first then we will decide. As soon as I got home, one of my neighbour love him. She looked at him like looking at her lover (that’s what I thought).  She looked at him like never seen a puppy before. Then I ask her whether she wants to keep the dog. She nod her head. Before that, she needs to ask her parent permission.

The next day, she jumped happily to me and said, yes I can yes I can. I was so happy and handed the puppy to her. It is actually very good news to start my day. I can actually visit the puppy whenever I want to because she’s my neighbour.

In that case, I actually can see how well she takes good care of the puppy and how the condition of the puppy is. That puppy now named as Max!!

He’s very happy with the owner as I can see. This actually gave me the idea of writing it out on the blog as my assignment. What a coincidence. I just want everyone in this world knows that, helping out a puppy isn’t that hard. It is actually easy and you can feel the changes in yourself. I feel very proud of myself as I have helped a puppy. That is his life and I have saved him. J

animal rights

Well, when we talk about animal rights, what do we think of? Definitely animal abusing, torturing or perhaps the animal is caught and lock up in a locker or something. All these activities have to stopped at once. Basically, all living things are describe as things who have pulse or have a heart that beats every time we breathe. Well, aren’t animals counted as living things? Definitely yes but still why some people in this world have the heart to abuse animals?

I believe they have their brain and heart as well.  Animals are similar to human. They have feelings, thoughts and heart. Just that we do not understand their languages plus we suppose to respect all living things. There are some purposes why they are created. We must respect and take good care of all living things.

Most animals are taken as a pet like dogs, cats, hamster and rabbit. Most of the societies actually take dogs as their pet. Dogs are considered as a very good friend to the human. They obey, always be there when u needed them, need love from owner and definitely as a part of a family. After you has a pet dog, u definitely need to take god care of them. Take care like they are your brother or sister. Feed them and play with them if got time. To be honest, they are the best pet you can ever have.

Few months ago, a couple have abuse a poodle. What the hell is the couple thinking trying to let a poodle stand without resting? Poodle has very small legs. You don’t expect them to stand for a very long time without resting. That’s torturing!! I can actually feel what the poor poodle feels. But why can’t the couple feel? When I watched the video, my heart sinks. I wish I could actually slap and torture the couple like how the couple torture the poodle. That is seriously abusing.

I would seriously take this case seriously as the poodle is tortured until the couple throw the poodle on the wall and the door. The poodle was seriously bleeding nonstop. Can you imagine if you are tiny and I throw you on the wall and door, what will happen to you? Definitely you are going to enter the hospital for treatment. Thank god the couple is caught. Hopefully law can fight for the rights of the animal and help them when they needed to.

If you feel you can’t take good care of your pet properly, please do not keep a pet. They are going to suffer instead of you. You wouldn’t know whether they are alright or not. Please don’t be selfish and just think of yourself. This is really sad if selfishness is in you and you will not take people’s advice because you will always think you are right and others are wrong. Please open your eyes wider and be more caring to other living things. If you can’t even take care of your dogs or pets, how are you going to set a good example and take good care of your children when you have one? Please think it over again.




love them like how you love your family, brothers, sisters, friends and lover!!! <3

Best place to go II

So as you guys read my previous post, my best place to go in my list is anywhere with water! =D
So basically and logically thinking the next best place to go would be a place  would have great place to have fun and foood! hehe what best place to have all of this ? *dang dang dang* 


                                     MELAKA!!!!


Facts,  Melaka is located in the southern region of the Malayan Peninsula and is renowned for its famous Strait of Malacca, an important shipping route in the world.  It also known for its dutch architecture brought about by Portuguese colonization in 1511.  Today, Melaka is one among the only two places in Malaysia which are listed as a World Heritage Site by UNESCO (the other one is George Town of Penang). 

Personally, I'm attracted by her uniqueness and, of course, historical auras. The Historical City, Jonkers' Street, a series of museums (Maritim, Baba & Nyonya, Cheng Ho, etc.), old churhes, A' Famosa Fort, old tombs of kings and heros, blended into the modern Mahkota Parade, Pahlawan Square (Warrior), and first class hotels, together with the Traditional Hainan Chicken Rice, Portugist Tarts, durian cake, Satay Celup and popiah... well, nothing better than "extravaganza" to describe Malacca.
Other places of interest, such as Malacca Zoo, Butterfly Farm, Bee Farm and temples of unique architecture designs are the places that we should not miss. (Just some personal point of views, you can skip some of them as well, such as the crocodile farm, eye of Malacca and Mini Malaysia).Kinda boring =S if you visited it too often the attraction is basically the same =O


Yeah, after describing all the good things, now, the bad side- the traffic jam!! You will understand the true meaning of traffic jam if you visit Malacca during public holidays with your cars. "Holy Hainanese chicken rice!" We once caught by 2 hours of jam, just to enjoy a lunch of chicken rice. Horrible or not? Wanna take a try? The moral behind the story was: stay near to the heart of the city (such as the Mahkota Resort or some places nearby), and go to whatever place you can, possibly by foot. 


One of the more happening place, the jonker street is bustling with night markets & street hawkers & restaurants.

 
Thick with cultural vibes in the middle of famous 'Hon Wu' - Red houses.

My favorite  stop was Jonker Gallery. Personally, i really like how the shop look from the outside. Inside this hip-looking place are cool, retro designed bags and trendy clothing. Needless to say, the stuff here isnt exactly street price, but a good place to to find something more unique besides the fridge magnet as souvenirs. 

There is this particular handpainted batik shop which sells unique T-shirts. It is located along the lane near the Jonker St carpark. The owner, who trained in Terengganu in batik painting, mixed his own paint. According to his Korean wife( OMIGOSH I know =3,cool right ? ), who helped in painting some of the T-shirts, his paints are the only one-of-a-kind in the world. I fell in love with the vivid colours and quirky design.Unique indeed.

and the food at Jonker Street is great.Let me show some picture that I found from a blog.Most of the time when  I goes to these place, my mouth would act much more quicker than my hand=(
Therefore I never had a decent picture of any food =(



Nyonya Assam Laksa, pronounced as nio-nia ah-sham lak-sah.
Its quite spicy but it definitely will make yr taste bud feel wonderful.(if u get what i mean heheh)



Next is the ice kacang.Ooohhhh, my favourite! I prefer the one with lots of gula melaka.Inside it contain cendol, red bean and syrup.Definitely yuuummiliciousss =3

Mua Chi, pronounced as muah-chee.It’s some gummy paste stirred together with sesame peanut mixture.Crunchy =D


The main souvenir that you will be easily attracted to is probably the colourful clogs. Made by wood and painted with striking flowery pattern, the clogs are available in various colours such as red, yellow, purple and blue. You can even find those clogs in different sizes for both adult and children! These modern type of clogs are “invented” from clogs that old nanny wore in the olden days, which was just a simple one with red rubber strip and no colourful painting. Today, these clogs are just another hit item here! 

In short words, Melaka is....

A weird and wonderful mix of old, new and 'old new'

Thats the reason I'll go Melaka every year without a fail.So its definitely one of the best place to go in my list.So if you guys have the chance to go, GOOOO =DDDD

you wont regret it this I promise yoou =DD

Best place to go

Third week of college and this is definitely the next assignment we are assigned to do. I actually enjoy all this process but this is seriously making me cracking my head as I'm so out of ideas. Well basically all my life I've been in the water. Without water its like human without air. I've always have thoughts that my past life i was a mermaid. Who knows that's what I've been through. Well, definitely only GOD knows. But I'm very sure that the water ( means the swimming pool) is the best place to go.


Basically in high school, i was known as a dolphin or water baby (love that name). By me (the water baby) goes for training is a way for me to relax myself. The water can calms me down when i feel stress. Angry will just melt as the water flows by. The best part is sadness can be express by crying in the water and at the same time no one will notice it. In water, I actually feel much more confident compare to land as i play a lot of sports relating to water.


There's time to be serious too. Like when there's competition, we actually train hard at the same time it is good for our body. Without us knowing, we actually exercise our body. Water sports are definitely the hardest sports compare to land sports. Some sports are actually addictive to me. Example, water polo. Once you play, you will never turn back. Water polo is a game which can build team work, understanding, phisical and mentally streangth. Definitely we need to work together, play together, eat together, stay together, sleep together and bath together. Not to forget, have FUN TOGETHER!!!


when water strikes


fun fun fun!!!!



show some teeth. :)









scuba diving definitely fun. There's alot of creatures. example, shark, turtle, lion fish. ect.


Remember, at some point of our life that we really need some break from everything. But one thing we cant forget is how we live through our life. What we going to do with our life if there's only stress?? Therefore remember that fun is needed in out life too. For water baby like me, fun is in the water. FUN FUN FUN!!!!   SMILE!!! =D

College Life ii

Hey back to part 11 and this time its about my class.Dayum.Did I mention that  I'm still lost
 after 1 week being there. I'm so embarrassed.Walk around like a lost duckling around the big campus lakeside. And almost every single day I'm.... *drums rolling*  eating subway.hahahaha fortunate ? Yea  I know hahaha Damn it.Eating the subway sandwiches its like heaven in every bite.By the way,I dislike the food in the cafeteria.The food like *censored* hahaha   metaphorically speaking.haha Neh its just that I dislike the price of the food.Its so freaking expensive! 
Cheapest food was RM2 for nasi lemak! Rawr! Nevermind, I shall stick to Subway =3
hehe (I know the price in Subway isn't really either considered cheap =X)

                                       Me favourite =3

The lecturer was really friendly and helpful .eventho some were strict.No difference from high school lecturer.

The IT class.My god! HOnestly for a clueless person who only knew how to on the pc n online.IT is definitely difficult for me.Its so hard to understand! Crap. I was like what the heck is the leturer talking about ??? Basically I gotta brush up and study it more =S

sigh more midnight oil to be burn =(

environment -sitting there peaceful beside the lake-childish-feed fishbring -gonna bring fgm along Weeee

hectic life after few weeks -school training 11 sleep 1-clean-SIGH-clams me at the same time makes me tired-WATER FISH!no water i'm dying =S

irregular scheduele unlike highschool

Assignment-blog?

I was Like Huhhhh? Blog ? Are you kinding me ? Where is there such thing as writing blogs for assignment??

But I'm taking mass com.What do I expect ? Talking to the mic and facing the camera whole day ? I suppose blogging is a way of communication with other people but in words.=X

So here I go.Setting the laptop on the desk with milo on my right.Lights on.At the stroke of 11'clock.

The task is hard but I must do.*serious face*

I began . I on the laptop.Then I clicked on google chrome.

When the page came out, I was...... *BLANK*.

Who am I kidding with ? I have never blog before.

Who to create a blog in the first place? ARghhh?

Omigossh.Trust me at that moment I was going mad.Asking for human's help!

*THANK YOU FAIRYGODMOTHER =3 ME HEART YOU SO MUCH!!! <3*

So in the end, everything turns out well and I managed to get on with my assignment. as all this is part of the college life.Learning new things =)

Anyway last but very least, I'm saving the best for the last =)
*drums rolling**spotlight turned on*


The mates which gonna fight together with me in this classes and dies(as if assignment rejected, heheh gonna bring one of them alone with meeeee =DDD.just kidding) 
Introducing 

• Stephy, the girl who's worship branded stuff.Those big name.Eg, LV,Guicci,etc -envy =S hand

• Augustine aka oCtupus,the blur dude.Cute fella.He suddenly took a microphone and  beat box in the hall one day.haha Hilarious moment

• Donson,the funny fella.Chubby cute look funny ? Know as onion ? Adorable

• Shaun, the cutest one there.He wants to be an actor.During the first introduction, he laugh laugh and then display a cute pose? AWHhhh

• Lastly,Sandra, the smart one.She could do pretty mind maps which is really organised